Saturday, November 28, 2015

Stitches in Time II: The Barbour Beaufort



Chongqing to Three Gorges, Nov. 1998
I bought this Beaufort coat, shown at left, in November 1998 at the old Orvis shop on 45th Street by Grand Central Station, in anticipation of a trip to China, to include an excursion down the Yangtse River through the Three Gorges. I was looking for a versatile coat to keep me warm enough on the river at night and in the early mornings, but one that wouldn’t roast me at other times. I settled on this one over a versatile Patagonia model and never looked back.

At the time, Barbour coats, especially among American males, were not the ubiquitous symbols of the American upper-middle class that they have become. When the weather cools in autumn and before the spring thaw, Barbours have become part of a stylish uniform, worn on the train to the city, in the Escalade to yoga class, and sometimes even in the country while actually stalking ducks or trout with a faithful dog or rod.

Lately, my wife, the DG, has taken to hanging mine far away from other valued coats, usually this means on a rack at the top of the cellar stairs. She says that it has a peculiar odor that apparently will never go away. A couple of years ago, I took it to an Orvis shop in Darien, Connecticut to have it refurbished at the coat hospital; but it was refused. According to Orvis, the refurb would have cost more than a new coat, which did not come as any great shock to me. Actually, I took it as a badge of honor.

I had it professionally finished a couple of times, and, memorably, tried to wax it myself once. Once was enough. But, admittedly, there were long stretches during which, either due to procrastination or an unreasonable clinging to the particular pattern of disrepair and fading, I failed to appear at Barbour coat court at the appropriate times.

As it turned out, it did not prove to be a good travel coat. Primarily, this is due to its weight when well waxed. Features meant to ward off nasty brambles while bird hunting or generally scavenging through fields, make it hard to pack, too heavy for lots of city walking, and unforgiving in the daytime heat of China, to name one place. Admittedly, and with at least a smidgeon of regret, I took a number of trips without being deterred by these character flaws of an old friend.

On the other hand, in northeastern fall weather, into mid-December and in early spring, in other words, in its element, it has served me particularly well for many years. The Beaufort is more than just a coat – or a symbol of belonging to a certain kind of posh set – as with the best things we wear it became an integral part of my life. At times, in its prime, it was a good practical coat in cool and or wet weather. It became a convenient everyday commuting coat. But, and here’s the real test, I always felt great wearing it, as if it were a part of me: A tough, oily second skin.
 
Perhaps that’s why the Barbour company and its products have lasted so long and are still valued by millions.


One of these days, I’ll have to get another. Until then, this one hangs in a safe place where its curious aroma of wax, smoke (Weber), cities on three continents, and salt/river water can’t spread to other coats and scarves. Their loss.

Wednesday, November 25, 2015

Breaking News: Kindness Breeds Kindness! Who Knew?


From Paris to Beirut to Moscow to New York, people are asking: How did the world go so wrong?

I know, because people call and write to me about all kinds of stuff. Well, not me-me, Editor-me.

This week, I spoke with a woman on the phone who was wondering where a local charity gift shop had gone to when she wasn’t looking (Stamford, Conn). “While I have your ear,” she added, “Why does the town do such a bad job of decorating for the holidays, and why don’t we decorate the Village Green with what we used to call a Christmas tree? I guess we'd have to call it an 'evergreen' tree.” She went on to tell me that Greenwich, Conn does a much better job of decorating (I live there and she had no need for my reasonable thoughts on the subject), and wanted me to give her the phone number of the local Chamber of Commerce so that she could lodge a complaint. I gave her the email address of its president.

The woman got out of bed mad, stayed that way, and I couldn’t reason with her.

How did the world get so wrong?

I’m willing to bet that this woman has one or two fairly simple solutions to the terrorist crisis that has most of us in its grips. She hadn’t realized a shop had been moved to a better place months ago, that someone had worked hard on decorating the trees despite her disappointment, and that I wasn’t a 411-informaiton operator, but I’ll bet she has an answer to immigration and rampant, religious-based mass murder, and a few other problems to boot.

How did the world get so messed up?

I don’t pretend to have a solution to our current predicament with regard to the fanatical addiction to mass murder and inflicting fear into the minds and hearts of those who live in more tolerant cultures.

But I say this – it couldn’t hurt if, while we’re dealing with our personal and collective fears, to practice kindness to others who might be going through the same thing. It couldn’t hurt to forgive the driver in front of me for not using turn signals, the cop who gave me a parking ticket because I left my permit home, or the potential buyer who passed on my 1997 gem of a Jeep, just when I thought he was going to take it off my hands.

We may not have a simple answer to how we got here or how we get somewhere else, where all the fear and killing stops. But, honestly, do we think it makes things better to be so consistently unkind, intolerant, greedy, dismissive, rude, aggressive, and to make everything about me, me, me with people who are standing/sitting/lying right in front of us?

I think not.

I hope the woman to whom I spoke on the phone gets a huge hug today when she least expects it – and doesn’t have the hugger arrested. I hope Charlie finds another, better vehicle for his son, and that it doesn’t turn lemon before my Jeep would have. I hope that driver on I-95 who didn’t signal gets behind other drivers all day long who signal every turn and pay the tolls for him/her.

And I hope the next person who doesn’t live up to my expectations for whatever preconceived reasons I have set, despite possibly not having ever laid eyes on them, is kind enough to forgive me in advance.

It couldn’t hurt to strike kindness into the hearts and minds of those we might never see again.

Sunday, November 8, 2015

Stitches in Time I: Vintage Levi's Denim Jacket




In 1975, while living in Bluebird Canyon, Laguna Beach California – yes it was/is as beautiful as it sounds – I traded an even older Levi’s jacket for what at the time was this close-to-new model. As I recall the switcheroo, there may have been quite a sizing differential, since my local-surfer roommate at the time was at least 30 lbs lighter than me. Okay, call it 40. I’m thinking that his girlfriend had probably bought the wrong, much larger size for him.

I wore this in Southern California canyon winters over a shirt to stay warm – yes, there were/are seasons there, folks – but also to work and the beach in summer. Later, while living in San Francisco, I sometimes wore it in summer under an old herringbone tweed jacket. Twain was right about San Francisco summers.

It has been some years since I was able to actually button this jacket; however, certain other female members of the family have enjoyed using it.

Do I harbor hopes of actually being able to properly wear this jacket again one day? Hardly, but that doesn’t mean that I should part with it. It’s a piece of personal history as well as being an iconic piece American design and style history.

Besides, there’s anther generation in the family coming along soon and she/he might find it useful, not to mention, valuable some day.


Until then, I’m holding on to it.